The One
Life is so interesting. Human beside just live what they should do daily, searching for life partner would be most difficult part. God had created us so that we can have 2 ways communication with Him. Therefore searching for life partner is not something as easy we those creatures. We looking to the perspective of another person, we care what he/she think... most of all we looking for the perfect match in heaven. When this happen, all the blessing and wisdom will fall onto you.

3 point (principle, purpose and plan)
Principle. Searching for intersting principle of life from your partner. Is she has the same principle of life as you do. e.g I want 2-3 kids, same as she do? Then you should have a big tick on your journal. Also find out what she wants to do in future, missionary or housewife. Think about what is the different between these too dreams???
Purpose. Checking the purpose of searching life partner ourselve. Of course to keep the decendents flowing.... but the most important is, do we have the same purpose in life. I might have purpose in life is to live fore Christ, serve in church and do God's work. But what if she is just want to be a good housewive???
Plan. Life planing was so important. God guidance will never come if we not start to plan our life. Therefore it is important. If the life planning wasn't as similar as hers. Then you should know the answer.

Its is funny to look at these principle. Its like looking for partner, if matches 3 points, then you go for it!!! its not! We need wisdom to do these, we need the confirmation that what we doing is right. Therefore having somebody for you accountable with is very important.

Her, God and Me
Imgaine these 3 individual. The principle here is to explain how the relationship should goes before looking up these relationship as long lasting relationship. These three individual must be surpervise by the 3 principal. If all three 3 principle are going very well. You can see the relationship would become one as the relationship goes.